Men and women married for more than 20 years were asked for their best advice.
• Never go to sleep mad at each other. But also, never leave for work mad at each other. It can really ruin your day, and it’s not worth it. —Roger C., married 45 years
• Respect and a sense of humor are key. The sense of humor needs to kick in when the respect is temporarily wavering. —Bonnie W., married 35 years
• Accept that you can’t change someone. You have to learn to live with whatever annoys you, and remember that you have as many faults as your spouse does. —Russell S., married 40 years
• You have to be best friends, have mutual respect, trust, and be truly comfortable, not just complacent, with each other. —Marianne S., married 40 years
• Respect, honor, cherish, and nurture your partnership while supporting one another in the pursuit of personal dreams. —Lisa M., married 20 years
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